Reclaim Your Life's Most Defining Moments

Going Deeper

In my 20s, I struggled with dating, work, and social confidence. I wasn’t just shy. I had no friends, no love life, and was even given disciplinary at work for lacking confidence. I tried everything. I read books, took courses, worked with private 1-on-1 mentors, and even learnt card magic to make me more social. But nothing worked. On the outside, I looked confident, but inside, it felt like I was constantly wearing a mask. No matter what I did, there was this lingering feeling that I did not belong, was not valued, and it was not safe to be myself.

The truth was, I was carrying a quiet story of shame and fear deep in my subconscious—a pattern in my nervous system I didn’t even realize was running my life. But everything changed when, at 25, I experienced a powerful embodiment meditation that helped me finally let go of that story and accept myself for who I was at my core. It was like a weight lifted off me. I stopped trying to be someone else and started showing up as myself.

From that moment, everything changed. I stopped hiding. I stopped performing. And instead, I started feeling and truly accepting who I was in my own skin. Conversations that once died on me became effortless. I no longer needed to impress or win anyone over… because I finally trusted that I was already enough.